Sometimes I feel like I should be going out more, doing more things, meeting more new people. There was a time when all I would do is sit around, feeling sorry for myself that I either A) didn't have the cash to go out, or B) didn't feel cute enough to go out. Even worse than that, I felt like if I didn't go out that I was missing something, and then I would feel bad because I didn't have anyone to go out with. Like there was this standard that defines whether or not you are being a siccessful twenty-something.
These days, I've realized that if I want to go out, I should just go out. And if I just wanna stay in, then that's cool too. I don't always have to be worried that I'm missing something. Sometimes you just need a good night in.
Ok, I literally just typed "staying in" in youtube, and this is the first thing that came up. Not gonna lie, I kindof love it. But just for the record, this is not reflective of my Friday night....entirely.
(photo above: random blurry self portrait at my desk. To be fair, that was taken a while ago, so it doesn't look messy like that anymore. That can of soup is totally gone now.)